Setting Up Your Parent's Phone for Safety

Your parent's phone is their lifeline — to you, to help, and unfortunately to scammers. An hour spent setting it up properly is one of the highest-value things you can do from abroad.

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Safety essentials

• Emergency SOS — both iPhone and Android have a built-in SOS (usually pressing the side button several times) that calls emergency services and alerts contacts. Turn it on and add you as an emergency contact.
• Medical ID / ICE contacts — set up the on-device Medical ID (blood group, conditions, medicines, emergency contacts) viewable from the lock screen.
• Favourite contacts — put you, a local relative, and their doctor as one-tap favourites.
• Location sharing — share live location with you (Find My / Google) so you can locate them in an emergency.

Scam protection — critical

Elderly parents are heavily targeted by phone scams. Lock this down:

• Turn on spam/scam call filtering (built into Android Phone app and iPhone settings).
• Do not install remote-access apps (AnyDesk, TeamViewer and similar) — scammers use these to drain accounts. Remove any that are there.
• Set the family rule: never share an OTP, and any urgent money demand = hang up and call you first.

For the full picture, read our scam protection guide — including the "digital arrest" scam hitting elderly Indians hard.

Make it usable

• Large text & display — bump up font size and contrast; it makes everything easier.
• Simple home screen — keep only the apps they use; remove clutter.
• Auto-answer video calls (optional) — so you can check in even if they struggle to answer.
• Voice assistant — "Hey Google, call my son" works when fingers and eyes don't.

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